HOW FAST YOU CAN ARRANGE OUR MARRIAGE?
Marriage is a heavenly happening.
Bethlehem do not claim any credit for the thousands of marriages materialized thru our system. We are just instruments maintaining this system.
Our significance is that the elite Kerala Christian Families trust us with their personal matters and also look for suitable alliance at Bethlehem. We can showcase your profile to this community.
Here you donít have to tolerate mediocre middlemen and their commission culture discussions.
We also assist you in follow ups and crisis management.
CAN I AVAIL YOUR SERVICES WITHOUT REGISTERING?
Bethlehem is an exclusive service for the elite Christians since 1996. We are catering only the paid members. In 2005 September we have introduced www.bethlehemmatriominial.com as an extended service to this elite community. Bethlehem is not a dot COM Internet business.
We are not accepting free registrations. However you can submit your profile and get a Temporary Registration. So that you can evaluate our service without payment.
HOW TO REGISTER IN BETHLEHEM?
You can register online by clicking the REGISTER button NOW. OR Get an application from us by post or thru email, fill it and mail it along with Post Card Size Photo and a DD for the prescribed Registration Fee. OR Visit any of the Bethlehem offices at Ernakulam, Thrissur, Kottayam or Kozhikode, and fill in the application form, submit the photo, and Pay the prescribed fees to get a valid Profile Id and Password.
HOW LONG IS MY REGISTRATION VALID FOR?
Your Registration is valid for 6 months. You can extend it for another six months by Renewing. If you are still searching after one year, you need to Re-register.
WHY IS IT NECESSARY TO RENEW?
By renewing we are ensuring that you are still actively searching for the alliance. This helps us to keep the database clean from inactive proposals. Inactive proposals cause embarrassment to the clients as well as Bethlehem.
The renewal fee covers the cost of providing the monthly directory.
If not renewed some of your services might be disabled.
I HAVE NOT RENEWED FOR THE PAST ONE YEAR, CAN I CONTINUE TO AVAIL YOUR SERVICE?
Yes, you can do a re-registration by paying the appropriate fee. (See fees Structure)
We will give you a new Registration number and bring your profile to the latest album, and to the upper numbers in the web site.
I AM GOING ABROAD, WHAT IF I WANT THE SERVICES ONLY AFTER ONE YEAR?
You can inform us the same and we shall keep your profile ONHOLD. So that others will not send you proposals. You can Renew or Re-Register when you wish to restart.
CAN YOU PUBLISH MY POHTO AGAIN IN THE MONTHLY DIRECTORY?
Yes, by remitting the publishing fee you can avail this facility again.
WILL YOU PROPOSE OUR CASES TO SUITABLE CASES AS AND WHEN IT COMES?
Bethlehem makes proposals only at the initiative of one of the parties. You need to keep watching the web site, albums or the photo directory and select suitable cases and contact them through the website and also directly. We shall follow up the pending cases in your out box, when ever you request.
WHY THERE IS A REGISTRATION FEE? WHY DONíT I PAY AFTER MATERIALISING MARRIAGE THRU YOUR SERVICE?
Our role is to give you exposure to the potential candidates and their families. Our system of Albums at various centers, monthly photo directory and the web site is having a long reach deep in to the Christian community. It costs us to publish your profile thru our various media. The registration fee is towards this publishing and maintenances of the system.
WHAT IF I DO NOT GET ANY RESPONSES FROM BETHLEHEM?
We do not guarantee responses. The present system generates ample responses to a reasonably common candidate. If it does not, we must sit together analyze and probe in to the reasons. Solutions evolved in many a case.
WHAT IF I DO NOT WISH TO PUBLISH MY PHOTO?
You will be at disadvantage. The cases you are sending proposals to, would like to view the photo before forming an opinion. If it is not available the contacts will be disappointed. Also it substantially reduces the chances to get responses for you. It also implies wrong conclusions.
CAN YOU KEEP OUR PROFILE CONFIDENTIAL?
If you insist, You can opt for confidential status. But For our records, we need to have your full details specified in the application form. With this status we shall keep your profile in a confidential file, rather than the regular albums. In the website, Candidate's Name You can give Baptism Name.
Kindly remember that absolute confidentiality is not possible in this system. We also have the obligation to give your full details to who ever receives proposals from you.
WE DONíT WANT ANY ONE ASKING FOR THE GIRLS SHARE!
There should be some indicator at some stage, so that the other party can evaluate your financial status. Without comparing the various parameters arranged marriages are not taking place. We suggest you state the asset worth of the candidate while registering. Bethlehem will not involve in share matters. Assessing the financial status is one thing, negotiating for share is another thing. The difference is very thin and delicate.
CAN YOU VERIFY THE PROFILES AND RECOMMEND?
We have dedicated ourselves to remain impartial; hence we do not take the responsibility of verifying proposals.
WHAT WILL HAPPEN WHEN I SEND MESSAGES TO A PARTY THRU WEB SITE?
Your message will be placed in the InBox of the other member. You can view the status of each message depending on the action by the other member in your Out Box. If it is pending for more than a week, ask us to remind that party to take a decision.
UNABLE TO LOAD/CHANGE PHOTO IN THE SITE
Photo is displayed after the approval by Bethlehem team. Please refresh your page and check. If your photo is not changed even after one working day, please send the photo by email to firstname.lastname@example.org mentioning your Registration number as reference.
WHY THERE IS A COUNTER FOR VIEWING CONTACT INFO?
The contact information of other members is provided to you exclusively for your marriage alliance. It shall not be used for any commercial purposes or for friends and relatives. We need keep track of who is taking whoís details. If there is no restriction some one with commercial interest might be tempted to get the addresses from the database and misuse.
The whole systems works on information exchange. If all the information is open with out any restriction, there wonít be any thing to exchange and this service will be stand still.